Healing a Broken Heart

Being dumped by the one you love can be devastating. It can leave you feeling empty inside and depressed, it can even give you thoughts of suicide. It is never easy being broken up with especially when the feelings that were in the relationship were so strong, or at least you thought they were. But, no matter what, we should never give up on anything, especially not ourselves. Don't let that one setback in your life prohibit you from seeking new thrills and adventures, from living it up, from just enjoying our limited time here on Earth. I promise you, no matter how special you thought your significant other was, there is always better out there. There are millions and millions of people in the world, and if you think the one guy/girl you were with was the only one for you, well you must be pretty damn lucky to have found him/her, because the chances of that are pretty slim considering how many others are out there. Wake up, get dressed, put a smile on your face, hold your head up high and go out and meet people, have fun!!! Do not let this "heartbreak" bring you down. You are better than that! I can say all this from experience, i just recently had my heart ripped to pieces. It was the worst pain i ever felt in my life even passed physical pain. I cried for the first time in years, for days on end. I would wake up and just lay in my bed everyday and not do a thing but listen to sorrowful songs. I wouldn't even go out with friends anymore, i didn't even let anyone know what was going on, i kept everything bottled up. That is, until i checked my myspace one day and met this girl who had added me, and after a few days made me happy again. She quickly made me realize that my ex was not the only one who cares about me, she wasn't the only one who could make me smile, and feel special. I was starting to not think about her as much anymore, i was able to eat again, i was finally thinking optimistic about life again, everything was better again! All because i let myself become open to something new. Now i'm still with the girl i met and everything is great. A year ago i couldn't have ever imagined being with someone else, nevermind being this happy with someone else, but that just goes to show you there is always someone else out there. So god forbid something horrible happens between me and and my new g/f, i will already be aware that there is definitely someone else out there for me, therefore i will not let my life stray into that dark hole again. So to anyone who is heartbroken and depressed, and feels that their life is basically over, and that they are not good enough for anyone, please please please erase all that negative thinking and become positive and just smile. :) Give it a try, it won't hurt. Hang out with friends, go out places and meet someone. Forget about the past, and don't let it affect your future. You have complete control over your life, i really dont believe there is a such thing as fate, and even so if there is, then it is destined for you to move on with your life and become a happy person again :) I hope this helps.
Brian